is almost here. A couple more days and out temps will only have highs in the low 50's or mid 60's! I don't mind as long as the sun shines. I dislike dreary, gray, rainy days when it's so cold your bones are chilled and just can't seem to warm up.
Actually, I rather like the fall weather. Crisp air, brilliant sunshine, leaves a beautiful array of colors is to my liking. The only bad thing I can find with fall is that winter follows it...sigh! But I don't want to think of that now. I want to concentrate on the crispy mornings with sunshine and evenings with clear, bright moon shine and stars twinkling so bright it seems as if you could reach up and touch them!
Sunday, April 23, 2017
November
Well, here it is November. The month that hubby heads up north to Michigan's Upper Peninsula to deer hunt for two weeks. I miss him when he's up there, but he works hard all year long and deserves this time to hunt, enjoy family members who also hunt and just to get away without any worries at all. He wasn't sure he was going to be able to go because they laid him off the beginning of Oct. which means he wouldn't have the extra money to go. He lucked out and they called him back from lay-off beginning Oct. 31st. One of the things that would have been so hard for him was that if he remained on lay-off, he would have lost his health insurance benefits through his employer. And with all the medical issues he and I have would have placed us in a world of hurt!! I have been to the E.R. 2 times in a four-day period. The first one was for muscle spasms in my back and 2 days later it was because of severe itching due to an unexpected and unwanted new allergy to the Penicillin I had been on for a sinus infection. Guess I won't be taking that anti-biotic anymore!
And November brings us all closer to the Christmas holiday, which is very expensive when you have as many grandchildren as we do. We would like to do more for them but it is impossible with the cost of everything now and the prices are still going up on food, gas, toys, etc. Every one gets a present that has been picked just for them! I am glad we live close enough to most of them so we know what the like to do and what interests they have at the present time. Our clan in Kentucky are not difficult either. We send them a prepaid Visa or MasterCard and let momma and daddy shop for things the four kids down there would like.
And November brings us all closer to the Christmas holiday, which is very expensive when you have as many grandchildren as we do. We would like to do more for them but it is impossible with the cost of everything now and the prices are still going up on food, gas, toys, etc. Every one gets a present that has been picked just for them! I am glad we live close enough to most of them so we know what the like to do and what interests they have at the present time. Our clan in Kentucky are not difficult either. We send them a prepaid Visa or MasterCard and let momma and daddy shop for things the four kids down there would like.
Jan. 2018
A new year and maybe a new start on blogging. Seems like everyone has turned to Facebook to be their social media. I don't always like to make things that public. So I am going to try blogging again. Hoping that some of my friends that use to blog will return or have returned.
A lot has happened in the last year or so that I have been on Facebook. Amber has had another baby boy and is still with Bobby. They have their ups and downs but seem to be doing much better than she and the jerk from her past! Her boys are adorable and I wish I were in better health so I could have them more. But at 2 1/2 and 9 months they are very mobile and busy and this old body that will be 71 next month just isn't able to keep up anymore! I hate that part of getting old!
Since I wrote last I have had cataract surgery on both eyes and can now see without glasses for seeing distances but still need them for reading. But I love not having to wear glasses all the time and when the weather gets hot will love not having them sliding down my nose!
Brian's divorce was final and he and Belinda had a Spiritual Ceremony Friday evening. His children and Belinda's twin sister Mabel were in attendance along with Tom and I. It was very nice and we all went to Brann's after and shared a meal. So his children now have a Step-mom but she isn't the mean kind. They will have a civil wedding later this summer to make it legal in the eyes of the rest of the world, but in God's eyes they are married and committed.
It is now Thursday the 20th and tomorrow Tom and I will have been married 27 years! Longer than I ever thought we would be married. Not because it is hard to be married to him, but because we got married later in life and I wasn't sure either of us would live this long! But here we are celebrating another year..........hooray for us! Brian and Belinda were out tonight visiting and having some dessert with her twin Mabel. She's also a very nice gal. Not exactly like Belinda but nice!
I am hoping to get a puppy come the beginning of May. A little boy puppy and his name right now is Wookie. He is so adorable. He is a German Shepard, Border Collie and Lab mix. We will change his name to Bear. And I just found out that we will be his adopted parents. Nothing could have made me happier............well, nothing except learning that my hubby will get to go on first shift!
Sunday, November 15, 2015
October 2013
Well, it's been quite some time since I last posted and I miss blogging. I think when Facebook came out I was spending a lot of time there, but now it is getting old and tiresome to me. So I decided to go back to blogging to see if I can still write anything interesting........nothing profound, just the usual stuff.
I actually don't even know when the last time was that I was here but it must have been close to a year ago. Not much has changed.......oh, I've gotten older but that happens every year so that's not new. The kids are well as are the grandkids. The grandkids are all growing up way to fast for my liking. Amber is now 18 1/2 and is living with her boyfriend and I rarely see her. I miss her terribly but what can ya do! Drew is now 9 and our oldest grandson is 24 and the youngest granddaughter is 4 now. No babies left. Maybe Bumpa and I will live long enough to see a greatgrandchild but it doesn't look very hopeful or likely at this point. I guess I would rather wait until they are ready and want to have babies anyway. None of this 'surpise' stuff!
It's almost Thanksgiving and I have a lot to be thankful for. Of course I often forget and complain about things too instead of putting my blessings first! I guess that is typical of humans....at least this one!
Okay, it is the 15th of November 2015. My first husband has now been gone 40 years today! Doesn't seem possible that we have come so far since then and the kids are all grown up with families. Time waits for no one. They are all relatively happy. The oldest son is getting a divorce but he and his wife have handled it very well and the kids are doing good and are okay with it! The middle son is doing good with his wife and all children are doing good there too. The youngest son is still with that same girlfriend and have their ups and downs...........right now they are having an "ups" time. His soon to be ex-wife is doing fantastic finally. Has found herself a new man who treats her and the boys extremely well! We are happy for her and our grandsons! Both girls are doing good..........the oldest has a new job and she is able to work from home now. The youngest is still living in Kentucky and seems happy at the moment.
Our granddaughter, Amber is living with us along with her boyfriend Bobby. They seem well matched and get along great. Her baby Triton is 14 months old now and is walking and climbing and gets into everything! But he is a joy. He has to go every weekend to see his Daddy according to the temporary court order but she has a date on Dec. 23rd at 2 PM to establish child support and set up permanent parental visitation which hopefully will only be every other weekend. We will have the baby for Thanksgiving because he doesn't have to go with his dad until Friday at 6PM after the holiday. As it stands now we will also have him for Christmas morning until 6PM that evening unless that changes on December 23rd after the new court date. Amber is doing work in the house to earn money to pay her attorney............it's only $20. a week but still it is something. We are basically supporting her and the baby and have for most of the year so we will be claiming them on our taxes this year.
Tom is in the U.P. deer hunting and I hope he has a good time and is able to get his "buck" this year. Usually all he gets is "back"! LOL! He is up there with his Uncle Rick and some other family members. I will miss him. He will only be gone one week this year because no one else is able to go for the 2nd week up there. I think he said he was off the rest of November now. Maybe I can get my eyes tested and new glasses which I desperately need and perhaps get some Christmas shopping at least started! I don't like waiting until the last minute. I like to get my tree up the weekend after Thanksgiving but am wondering this year how good of an idea that is having the busy great-grandson into everything. I can picture him wanting to take the ornaments off my tree! It will be fun to see his expression after the tree is completely decorated and the lights are all turned on! Last year he was only 4 months old at Christmas time so he doesn't remember much about it and he was basically immobile last year and this year is a totally different ball game! It should be a lot of fun!
I better try and get some more sleep. It is now 4:37 AM and I will have to get up and get some things accomplished in the morning before that great grand-baby gets home late afternoon! Happy Thanksgiving to all of you!
Our granddaughter, Amber is living with us along with her boyfriend Bobby. They seem well matched and get along great. Her baby Triton is 14 months old now and is walking and climbing and gets into everything! But he is a joy. He has to go every weekend to see his Daddy according to the temporary court order but she has a date on Dec. 23rd at 2 PM to establish child support and set up permanent parental visitation which hopefully will only be every other weekend. We will have the baby for Thanksgiving because he doesn't have to go with his dad until Friday at 6PM after the holiday. As it stands now we will also have him for Christmas morning until 6PM that evening unless that changes on December 23rd after the new court date. Amber is doing work in the house to earn money to pay her attorney............it's only $20. a week but still it is something. We are basically supporting her and the baby and have for most of the year so we will be claiming them on our taxes this year.
Tom is in the U.P. deer hunting and I hope he has a good time and is able to get his "buck" this year. Usually all he gets is "back"! LOL! He is up there with his Uncle Rick and some other family members. I will miss him. He will only be gone one week this year because no one else is able to go for the 2nd week up there. I think he said he was off the rest of November now. Maybe I can get my eyes tested and new glasses which I desperately need and perhaps get some Christmas shopping at least started! I don't like waiting until the last minute. I like to get my tree up the weekend after Thanksgiving but am wondering this year how good of an idea that is having the busy great-grandson into everything. I can picture him wanting to take the ornaments off my tree! It will be fun to see his expression after the tree is completely decorated and the lights are all turned on! Last year he was only 4 months old at Christmas time so he doesn't remember much about it and he was basically immobile last year and this year is a totally different ball game! It should be a lot of fun!
I better try and get some more sleep. It is now 4:37 AM and I will have to get up and get some things accomplished in the morning before that great grand-baby gets home late afternoon! Happy Thanksgiving to all of you!
Wednesday, February 12, 2014
Here it is, Feb. 12, 2014. Seems the time goes faster and faster and I get older and older! Of course the alternative to getting older isn't that appealing to me either so I'll take the getting older! A couple more days and it will be Valentine's Day! We don't really have any plans nor do we ever really make any for what we consider a 'Hallmark' day! We try and show how much we love each other every day of the year.......not just a day the card companies think we should!
He goes to work every day (when he's not laid off or on vacation) and works plenty hard to provide a good living for us. And when he is laid off, he works hard helping me in the house and working outside the house providing firewood for the fireplace as supplemental heating and just because I like to have a fire in the fireplace! If I am sick or just not feeling good, he steps up and does all of the housework, plus waits on me. I am one lucky woman and don't think I don't know it!
I am eagerally awaiting the arrival of Spring while wondering if it will ever get here. We have had a very long and cold and snowy winter and most people are ready for Spring to show it's most welcome face this year. We have had over 90 inches of snow and we have not had a day above freezing since sometime in December. Lake Michigan has more ice on it than it has had in a decade which should really raise the level of that Great Lake. If we do get any rain and warmer temperatures, we are at risk of flooding with so much ice on the lakes and rivers. We could very well have a terrible flood problem. Thank goodness, we are not in those areas. The most we would get is the small creek behind our home overflowing and turning the area mushy and swampy! It has happened before and our dogs love it of course......me......not so much!
He goes to work every day (when he's not laid off or on vacation) and works plenty hard to provide a good living for us. And when he is laid off, he works hard helping me in the house and working outside the house providing firewood for the fireplace as supplemental heating and just because I like to have a fire in the fireplace! If I am sick or just not feeling good, he steps up and does all of the housework, plus waits on me. I am one lucky woman and don't think I don't know it!
I am eagerally awaiting the arrival of Spring while wondering if it will ever get here. We have had a very long and cold and snowy winter and most people are ready for Spring to show it's most welcome face this year. We have had over 90 inches of snow and we have not had a day above freezing since sometime in December. Lake Michigan has more ice on it than it has had in a decade which should really raise the level of that Great Lake. If we do get any rain and warmer temperatures, we are at risk of flooding with so much ice on the lakes and rivers. We could very well have a terrible flood problem. Thank goodness, we are not in those areas. The most we would get is the small creek behind our home overflowing and turning the area mushy and swampy! It has happened before and our dogs love it of course......me......not so much!
Saturday, December 07, 2013
Wow, here it is almost the end of another year! Christmas is just around the corner and I have not finished my shopping or even started on Christmas cards yet! It seems too cold to go out shopping. Our temps right now is 8ยบ. Thank heaven there is no wind. I am cold in the house even though it is nice in here. It will be nicer when Bumpa gets home from work and gets a fire going. I love our fireplace.........it adds a certain ambiance to the Christmas spirit along with the extra warmth. The tree is up and the lights are on but I still need to decorate it. I will probably finish it this weekend if my back feels better and this cold that is trying to catch me doesn't! Seems as if I've been fighting it off for a week now......I sure wish it would just go away. Bumpa is having problems with his sinuses too. I'm sure it must be Michigan winters. It's warm outside with temps almost 50 and then turns much colder and gets windy and snowy. Old Man Winter just can't make up his mind. All in all, it hasn't been a bad winter so far. We haven't had a lot of snow which is much more pleasant for driving. And one of the nice things about being retired is not having to get out every day and drive if the weather is nasty. This last blast of arctic air is supposed to stick around until the middle of next week and then it is supposed to be normal temps for this time of year. We are expecting some lake effect snow tomorrow night and it is always hard to predict exactly how much we will get then. We got about 2 inches yesterday afternoon and last night and today we got just a dusting of light snow. But the dusting today is beautiful. When the light shines on it, it looks like a hundred diamonds sparkling! Let's hope the next snowfall looks the same.
Thursday, August 02, 2012
71
August 1st, 2012 - My late husbands birthday. He would be 71 today. He celebrated his 37th birthday in Heaven with Angels singing! I celebrated it alone.........I think I am the only one left who remembers when his birthday is. Oh, I could have called the kids and reminded them but they have their own life's and are busy, busy, busy!
I often wonder how my life would have turned out if he had lived instead of dying at the young age of 34. How would his children be affected if he had lived? Don't get me wrong, I totally love my husband and I have spent more years with him than Dave and I had, and wondering isn't discrediting our marriage any....it's been a good one! Just wondering how different things would be now and how different things might have been while the kids were growing up......it's really hard to imagine! I suppose the kids would have had the benefit of being raised by two parents instead of one and I'm sure that would have made a difference. I didn't remarry until the kids were pretty much grown up. The youngest was 16, the next one was 17 1/2 and the oldest 19. At that age the die is pretty well cast and I'm sure my husband didn't have that much of an effect on my kids. They like him. It wasn't always like that....for many years some of them resented him. It's only in the last few years that they all have come to appreciate everything he has done for them in the past and even now.
So as I put an end to Dave's 71st Birthday I guess I will go on wondering when ever I think about his birthday......every year on Aug. 1st and other days that were special to us through out the year.
I often wonder how my life would have turned out if he had lived instead of dying at the young age of 34. How would his children be affected if he had lived? Don't get me wrong, I totally love my husband and I have spent more years with him than Dave and I had, and wondering isn't discrediting our marriage any....it's been a good one! Just wondering how different things would be now and how different things might have been while the kids were growing up......it's really hard to imagine! I suppose the kids would have had the benefit of being raised by two parents instead of one and I'm sure that would have made a difference. I didn't remarry until the kids were pretty much grown up. The youngest was 16, the next one was 17 1/2 and the oldest 19. At that age the die is pretty well cast and I'm sure my husband didn't have that much of an effect on my kids. They like him. It wasn't always like that....for many years some of them resented him. It's only in the last few years that they all have come to appreciate everything he has done for them in the past and even now.
So as I put an end to Dave's 71st Birthday I guess I will go on wondering when ever I think about his birthday......every year on Aug. 1st and other days that were special to us through out the year.
Wednesday, May 30, 2012
May 30, 2012
The end of the month is almost here and nothing has changed much at all. Tom is still laid off and it doesn't look good for him to be called back any time soon, if at all. He will have to go job hunting beginning in June. I don't envy him! At his age it is hard enough to get up and go to work every day when you do have a job and it's even harder to get up in the morning knowing you have to go job hunting. There aren't really any jobs out there for him. At least not ones that will pay what he needs to make just to keep us afloat! I'm glad I'm retired! Although if I could still work I know the money that I would bring in would be a small amount it would still help some!
Memorial Day came and went. We went to the cemetery earlier last week and did Dave's grave. Rita has this year to do Mom and Dad's and Grandma and Grandpa's and Aunt Minnie and Uncle Walter's graves this year. She has the even years and we have the odd ones. She said she did it that way because we are odd and that's the way she would be able to remember! She's so silly!
We also planted flowers in our yard. Well, not exactly in our yard..........more like in pots and placed them around the house and deck, porch and patio where we can enjoy them when we sit outside. Even some near the kitchen window over the sink so I have something to look at besides weeks when I'm doing dishes! I do love the bright colors. Seems to put me a better mood.
Memorial Day came and went. We went to the cemetery earlier last week and did Dave's grave. Rita has this year to do Mom and Dad's and Grandma and Grandpa's and Aunt Minnie and Uncle Walter's graves this year. She has the even years and we have the odd ones. She said she did it that way because we are odd and that's the way she would be able to remember! She's so silly!
We also planted flowers in our yard. Well, not exactly in our yard..........more like in pots and placed them around the house and deck, porch and patio where we can enjoy them when we sit outside. Even some near the kitchen window over the sink so I have something to look at besides weeks when I'm doing dishes! I do love the bright colors. Seems to put me a better mood.
Monday, April 02, 2012
April weather
is a bit on the chilly side. The temp today made it all the way up into the low 50's. It is still 42ยบ outside and feels a bit damp. I hope tomorrow will be nicer with plenty of sunshine. The schools here are on Spring Break and that means Amber has come for a visit. She will also visit her Dad for a few days while she is here......and that is good. She needs her daddy and he needs to spend time with her too. He and his bride moved into a new place with her kids and his kids and their one together. Amber has not seen it yet and he is anxious for her to see it. I know she will like it.
Tom is still laid off and I'm not so sure anymore that he will ever be called back to work there. He really wants to go back but it is looking more and more like he will have to find a new job. And that will be one with less pay and less benefits........I'm not sure we will survive financially if that happens. But there is no point in worrying about it.....what happens, happens. There is nothing we can do about it. If only the economy wasn't so screwed up we could at least sell our home and rent if need be or purchase a smaller one. I don't want to have to do that...I really like our house. But I guess it all depends on if he gets called back anytime soon.
In anticipation of the nicer Spring weather, Tom and I did some spring cleaning last week so if the weather should become warmer and sunny we can be outside with the grandkids that will be coming and going during Spring Break. We had Drew on Thursday night and most of the day Fri. Also had Zaidyn Fri. We picked Amber up Sunday and I know for sure that Trenten and Ty will be coming over on Thursday evening to spend the night and stay until we take them to their aunt mid-morning Fri. Amber will most likely go to her dad's for part of this week but should return before Easter in order to eat with us and get home on time. School resumes the day after Easter. I'm not sure who else might be coming to stay during Spring Break and I guess it's just a good thing that we live in a big house!
Enjoy Spring Break!!
Tom is still laid off and I'm not so sure anymore that he will ever be called back to work there. He really wants to go back but it is looking more and more like he will have to find a new job. And that will be one with less pay and less benefits........I'm not sure we will survive financially if that happens. But there is no point in worrying about it.....what happens, happens. There is nothing we can do about it. If only the economy wasn't so screwed up we could at least sell our home and rent if need be or purchase a smaller one. I don't want to have to do that...I really like our house. But I guess it all depends on if he gets called back anytime soon.
In anticipation of the nicer Spring weather, Tom and I did some spring cleaning last week so if the weather should become warmer and sunny we can be outside with the grandkids that will be coming and going during Spring Break. We had Drew on Thursday night and most of the day Fri. Also had Zaidyn Fri. We picked Amber up Sunday and I know for sure that Trenten and Ty will be coming over on Thursday evening to spend the night and stay until we take them to their aunt mid-morning Fri. Amber will most likely go to her dad's for part of this week but should return before Easter in order to eat with us and get home on time. School resumes the day after Easter. I'm not sure who else might be coming to stay during Spring Break and I guess it's just a good thing that we live in a big house!
Enjoy Spring Break!!
Thursday, March 22, 2012
Summer heat in March............
but don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining! It's just unusual. The weatherman says since they have been keeping records, the springs that averaged above normal temperatures had 2 degree cooler Summers. That is okay too. I don't like it so warm that you sweat even without moving. And if it isn't as warm and the humidity is down, that's even better! The warm weather is nice for a change. We didn't have much of a winter ......... no major snowstorms and the temperatures were not as cold or at least didn't seem that way. And all those that have to drive back and forth to work didn't mind it either! Today we set another record temperature.....87ยบ with a breeze so it was extremely pleasant outside. Of course I took advantage of it and spent time just sitting out on the deck with hubby when I should have been getting some housework done. But later this week it is supposed to rain so it's a good thing I spent the time outside today.
Last Saturday was Amber's birthday...her golden birthday. She turned 17! I can't believe that she had been in our lives for 17 years though. It seems like yesterday when she was a newborn baby and so cuddly and cute. She's still cuddly but she has gone from cute to beautiful! I wish she wouldn't be so quick to give her heart away. She always seems to get it broken. Maybe that's the way she learns........perhaps this way she will know the real thing when it stares her in the face! I really miss her and hope she comes for a visit soon!
Now that it is 4:40AM I probably should get to bed so I can fall asleep before it is time to wake up.
Night!
Last Saturday was Amber's birthday...her golden birthday. She turned 17! I can't believe that she had been in our lives for 17 years though. It seems like yesterday when she was a newborn baby and so cuddly and cute. She's still cuddly but she has gone from cute to beautiful! I wish she wouldn't be so quick to give her heart away. She always seems to get it broken. Maybe that's the way she learns........perhaps this way she will know the real thing when it stares her in the face! I really miss her and hope she comes for a visit soon!
Now that it is 4:40AM I probably should get to bed so I can fall asleep before it is time to wake up.
Night!
Thursday, January 05, 2012
Jan. 4, 2012
Seems strange to write the year as 2012, but that's what it is now. We have finished another year and have a brand new book so to speak with brand new pages to write on and fill. To me it feels like getting a brand new big box of crayons all shiny and bright!
Christmas was as wonderful as could be expected with our youngest son being separated from his wife and children. Although, he and his children were here for our traditional Christmas Day buffet and gift exchange. We did miss his wife, but I guess people change and so do situations and we don't have any control over that. Also, our youngest daughter and her family didn't make it up from Kentucky for the celebration either. They are in the process of building a new home and the added expense of a trip to Michigan just wasn't in their budget. They have missed two Christmases in a row now. And I'm sure that traveling with 4 children isn't as easy as traveling with 3.
The day after Christmas I was having some trouble being short of breath and some pain in my neck, so we headed to the hospital just to be safe. I was admitted and stayed until evening of the 28th to get released and head home. Was not how I planned my week between Christmas and New Year but once again, some things we have no control over. I have a blockage but they are just going to treat it with medication for now. Going in for a heart cath with the contrast dye they must use is too risky for my kidneys at this time. Maybe in the future, but not now. I will just have to live with it the best I can and resume my normal activities as tolerated and rest when I get tired. Not my idea of the way I like to do things, but it is what it is and I will have to learn to cope with it!
Hoping you all have a wonderful year ahead of you filled with loved ones close and health abundant.
Christmas was as wonderful as could be expected with our youngest son being separated from his wife and children. Although, he and his children were here for our traditional Christmas Day buffet and gift exchange. We did miss his wife, but I guess people change and so do situations and we don't have any control over that. Also, our youngest daughter and her family didn't make it up from Kentucky for the celebration either. They are in the process of building a new home and the added expense of a trip to Michigan just wasn't in their budget. They have missed two Christmases in a row now. And I'm sure that traveling with 4 children isn't as easy as traveling with 3.
The day after Christmas I was having some trouble being short of breath and some pain in my neck, so we headed to the hospital just to be safe. I was admitted and stayed until evening of the 28th to get released and head home. Was not how I planned my week between Christmas and New Year but once again, some things we have no control over. I have a blockage but they are just going to treat it with medication for now. Going in for a heart cath with the contrast dye they must use is too risky for my kidneys at this time. Maybe in the future, but not now. I will just have to live with it the best I can and resume my normal activities as tolerated and rest when I get tired. Not my idea of the way I like to do things, but it is what it is and I will have to learn to cope with it!
Hoping you all have a wonderful year ahead of you filled with loved ones close and health abundant.
Thursday, November 17, 2011
November 17, 2011
Okay, it is the middle of November. The 15th, opening day of gun deer season has begun in Michigan. It was also the day that my first husband, Dave, passed away at the age of 34 from cancer, leaving me with 3 small children to raise. Fast forward 36 years later and I have remarried a wonderful man, have 5 children between us and a few adopted ones to boot, 20 - some grand kids and enough love for more if need be!
Two of the older boys went deer hunting near the Gun Lake area where we live. They both were successful and came away with bucks. Small bucks, but still bucks! Hubby, who goes all the way up north the Michigan's Upper Peninsula called and he has seen nothing! Should have stayed home and hunted nearer to where you live, silly!
It is cold out tonight. In fact it is the coldest night since March 26th I think they said on the news. It is 32ยบ right now outside. It is supposed to get even colder. No snow yet though. Oh, we had some snow already this fall, but it didn't last long....the kind I like!
I will need to begin Christmas shopping soon. With so many people to purchase gifts for, I must begin fairly early and shop only for sale items. Hopefully the things we want to give will be on sale! We have been lucky in the past, so I'm confident that it will work out this year also.
We do have some bad news this season. Our youngest son and his wife are no longer together. It saddens me, but there is nothing I can do about it. We will remain close with our daughter-in-law and our two grandsons. They are welcome in our home anytime. I'm not sure how Christmas or Thanksgiving will be handled this year as our son has a girlfriend who also has children. Which adds more expense to our Christmas giving. And at the present time, our sons cell phone is turned off, he has no job, no car and we have no way of contacting him. I don't even know when the last time was that he spoke with his sons or has seen them. Very sad situation indeed. He was always such a good father....I just don't understand what is going on. This is not like him at all.
But, on an up note, our 2nd youngest son who married a year ago this past Sept. is still extremely happy and he and his wife and family are doing remarkably well. I've waited a good long time for this to happen and I can say that I am very pleased with the results and the fine job they are doing of blending families together!
Our oldest son and his family are fine also. He has injured his knee and has a doctor appointment tomorrow to have that checked out. I keep telling him he's not as young as he once was. He will be 40 on Nov. 21st. He has a lovely family and his kids are growing like weeds as kids do. His wife is doing well and she is very dear to us too.
Our youngest daughter in Kentucky now has 4 children and is in the process of building their new home. We are so happy for them. The only drawback is that due to the cost of building a home, they won't be able to afford to come home for either Thanksgiving or Christmas this year. But the desperately need a new, bigger home to house them all, and we are very grateful that they have been able to accomplish this. I am hoping they might be able to actually be in their new home by Christmas.....boy what a blessing that would be for them.
Our oldest daughter and her husband have just the one child left at home now. The older two have moved out and are working and attending college. They are actually old enough to be married and starting families of their own, but have chosen to wait. I'm glad.....they need to enjoy themselves before they settle down with a family. But whatever they choose to do is okay with me as long as they remain happy and a part of our lives too.
Well, that's about it. I just felt the need to bring this blog up to date with my children and grandchildren and I think I've done just that.
Happy Thanksgiving to everyone....may you have a safe and wonderful holiday!
Two of the older boys went deer hunting near the Gun Lake area where we live. They both were successful and came away with bucks. Small bucks, but still bucks! Hubby, who goes all the way up north the Michigan's Upper Peninsula called and he has seen nothing! Should have stayed home and hunted nearer to where you live, silly!
It is cold out tonight. In fact it is the coldest night since March 26th I think they said on the news. It is 32ยบ right now outside. It is supposed to get even colder. No snow yet though. Oh, we had some snow already this fall, but it didn't last long....the kind I like!
I will need to begin Christmas shopping soon. With so many people to purchase gifts for, I must begin fairly early and shop only for sale items. Hopefully the things we want to give will be on sale! We have been lucky in the past, so I'm confident that it will work out this year also.
We do have some bad news this season. Our youngest son and his wife are no longer together. It saddens me, but there is nothing I can do about it. We will remain close with our daughter-in-law and our two grandsons. They are welcome in our home anytime. I'm not sure how Christmas or Thanksgiving will be handled this year as our son has a girlfriend who also has children. Which adds more expense to our Christmas giving. And at the present time, our sons cell phone is turned off, he has no job, no car and we have no way of contacting him. I don't even know when the last time was that he spoke with his sons or has seen them. Very sad situation indeed. He was always such a good father....I just don't understand what is going on. This is not like him at all.
But, on an up note, our 2nd youngest son who married a year ago this past Sept. is still extremely happy and he and his wife and family are doing remarkably well. I've waited a good long time for this to happen and I can say that I am very pleased with the results and the fine job they are doing of blending families together!
Our oldest son and his family are fine also. He has injured his knee and has a doctor appointment tomorrow to have that checked out. I keep telling him he's not as young as he once was. He will be 40 on Nov. 21st. He has a lovely family and his kids are growing like weeds as kids do. His wife is doing well and she is very dear to us too.
Our youngest daughter in Kentucky now has 4 children and is in the process of building their new home. We are so happy for them. The only drawback is that due to the cost of building a home, they won't be able to afford to come home for either Thanksgiving or Christmas this year. But the desperately need a new, bigger home to house them all, and we are very grateful that they have been able to accomplish this. I am hoping they might be able to actually be in their new home by Christmas.....boy what a blessing that would be for them.
Our oldest daughter and her husband have just the one child left at home now. The older two have moved out and are working and attending college. They are actually old enough to be married and starting families of their own, but have chosen to wait. I'm glad.....they need to enjoy themselves before they settle down with a family. But whatever they choose to do is okay with me as long as they remain happy and a part of our lives too.
Well, that's about it. I just felt the need to bring this blog up to date with my children and grandchildren and I think I've done just that.
Happy Thanksgiving to everyone....may you have a safe and wonderful holiday!
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Blustery days!
Well here it is the middle of October. The temps are cool, highs in the low 50's with very strong winds which will probably strip the trees of their leaves in very short order. We did make it on a color tour this year and the colors were beautiful as you can see by the above photos. This was on Oct. 7, 2011.
Now it is Oct. 18th, my oldest daughters 43 birthday! Happy Birthday Michelle! And tomorrow, the 19th is the birthday of two of my granddaughters, Hannah and Harley! Happy Birthday girls! On the 26th, my grandson Drew, will turn 7. Doesn't seem possible that he is going to be that old already. As I get older the time seems to slip by much faster. I wish it would slow down and give me a chance to enjoy each age my grand children are before rushing ahead like a fast moving brook!
My mind wanders, back to the color tour. We had a very pleasant day and I am glad hubby is laid off right now or we probably would have missed it this year. As of today, with all the wind we have been having, the trees are almost void of leaves except for the mighty oak whose leaves turn brown but seem to hang there forever as a stark reminder of the beautiful green and the shade they once provided in the summer.
Wednesday, August 24, 2011
August 23rd....almost the last hurray of summer 2011!
At least that's the way it seems to me. Tom has been working second shift most if not all of this summer. Usually 6 days a week. Doesn't leave much time to spend together doing fun things. On his only day off, Sunday, we use to go on adventure rides as I call them. Now we spend them catching up on yard work, weather permitting.
We did have a nice 5 day get away this summer, but it seemed to end to quickly for my liking. Wish it could have lasted longer. Maybe it's because I'm retired ~ well, mostly anyway. Sometimes they paper calls me in to fill in for someone who is on vacation or has called in sick or has a sick child. In fact I worked yesterday because the gal I was filling in for had no sitter and knew she wouldn't, so this was set up quite some time ago. A little extra spending money is always nice. But with Tom working 2nd shift and me working days, I only see him if I wait up for him to come home. That's what I'm doing tonight...he should be here around 1:30AM....overtime!
A storm blew in earlier tonight with lots of heavy rain, thunder and lightening. I love thunder storms but am not allowed to enjoy them as in the past. I have these 2 four-legged fur kids who do NOT like thunder and lightening. As a matter of fact they are now smart enough that when it begins to rain they predict thunder and lightening by following me around where ever I go, including into the bathroom! I comfort them as best I can and reassure them that everything will be fine and I am here and won't let anything happen to them. I hope they're around long enough to return the favor to me when I get too old to walk around safely!
We did have a nice 5 day get away this summer, but it seemed to end to quickly for my liking. Wish it could have lasted longer. Maybe it's because I'm retired ~ well, mostly anyway. Sometimes they paper calls me in to fill in for someone who is on vacation or has called in sick or has a sick child. In fact I worked yesterday because the gal I was filling in for had no sitter and knew she wouldn't, so this was set up quite some time ago. A little extra spending money is always nice. But with Tom working 2nd shift and me working days, I only see him if I wait up for him to come home. That's what I'm doing tonight...he should be here around 1:30AM....overtime!
A storm blew in earlier tonight with lots of heavy rain, thunder and lightening. I love thunder storms but am not allowed to enjoy them as in the past. I have these 2 four-legged fur kids who do NOT like thunder and lightening. As a matter of fact they are now smart enough that when it begins to rain they predict thunder and lightening by following me around where ever I go, including into the bathroom! I comfort them as best I can and reassure them that everything will be fine and I am here and won't let anything happen to them. I hope they're around long enough to return the favor to me when I get too old to walk around safely!
Tuesday, August 09, 2011
Did ya ever......
............go to a local store and see someone you sure you knew? I did, today! Was positive that it was the mom of my daughters friend, Sherry, who was on the same high school swim team. I said "Hi, how are you?" She smiled back and said "fine, and you?" I told her I was fine also, and asked her how her kids were. She looked at me with a puzzled look on her face and said..."do I know you?" I then asked her if her name was Pat? She gave me a big smile which led me to believe that she had not recognized me at first. She then extended her hand to shake hands with me and said....with a big smile on her face...."My name is Dot and it's always nice to meet new people!"
I should have been embarrassed but I wasn't! I smiled back and mumbled something about when I got really old and had Alzheimer's I would meet new friends every day and started to walk away when she touched my arm and reassured me that it was fine and that she does the same thing sometimes. We laughed, chatted a few more minutes about being moms and grandmas and growing old, and went on our separate ways. Talk about a DUNCE!!!!
I should have been embarrassed but I wasn't! I smiled back and mumbled something about when I got really old and had Alzheimer's I would meet new friends every day and started to walk away when she touched my arm and reassured me that it was fine and that she does the same thing sometimes. We laughed, chatted a few more minutes about being moms and grandmas and growing old, and went on our separate ways. Talk about a DUNCE!!!!
Monday, August 01, 2011
August 1, 2012
I can't believe it is the beginning of August already. 70 Years ago today, my first husband was born. This November 15th will be the 38 Anniversary of his passing! Seems like so long ago now. My children were all little then and now, most of my grandchildren are older than mine were way back then. Had Dave lived, he would have been so proud of his children and grandchildren. How I wonder sometimes, did I ever get through those years of raising them alone.
So many things have happened since then...so many things have changed, and yet some things remain the same! I can't even imagine what things would be like now if he had lived past his 34 years on this earth. Well, that is something that I will never know in this lifetime at least.
Enough of the past.....I always get a little sad on this day wishing he were here to celebrate his birthday with his kids and grand kids.....life goes on!
So many things have happened since then...so many things have changed, and yet some things remain the same! I can't even imagine what things would be like now if he had lived past his 34 years on this earth. Well, that is something that I will never know in this lifetime at least.
Enough of the past.....I always get a little sad on this day wishing he were here to celebrate his birthday with his kids and grand kids.....life goes on!
Monday, May 16, 2011
May 16 ~ Monday morning. . . . . .
so here it is. Another Monday morning where I don't feel like waking up. Yet I must, the dogs want out and the sun is shining. So why this funk? Maybe because the weather has been so cold and rainy lately that it's just some state of mind we have all adapted to cope with the crappy weather. Maybe we will be in some kind of funk through the entire year! I guess that wouldn't be the end of the world. . . . we would just have to deal with it!
My mind wants to jump up and do things.........anything active and outdoors..........but my body says 'whoa girl' we can't do that anymore! So I guess that is really the crux of my funk. And I guess it will be with me for the rest of the year and probably into next year too. Plans, future, dreams? Don't really feel I have any of those anymore. It seems I'm just here exisiting until the good Lord calls me home. I now know why all those people in my past who were either very sick or old(er) than me were ready to call in quits and die. They even looked forward to it........something I find myself thinking about some days!
My mind wants to jump up and do things.........anything active and outdoors..........but my body says 'whoa girl' we can't do that anymore! So I guess that is really the crux of my funk. And I guess it will be with me for the rest of the year and probably into next year too. Plans, future, dreams? Don't really feel I have any of those anymore. It seems I'm just here exisiting until the good Lord calls me home. I now know why all those people in my past who were either very sick or old(er) than me were ready to call in quits and die. They even looked forward to it........something I find myself thinking about some days!
Friday, April 22, 2011
Easter Weekend
Easter weekend begins tomorrow and it is supposed to be a partly sunny day. Easter Sunday is supposed to be raining. That means any grand kid coming here will have to hunt Easter Eggs inside this year. Seems like so many of the near past Easters have been cold and snowy or rainy. I can't remember when the last Easter was that the little ones could hunt outside for their eggs.
I don't even know if any of the kids are coming to bring the grand kids over. I asked, but haven't heard back from anyone. We've been invited to Bumpa's aunt and my friends home for dinner, but I hate to accept in case the kids do bring the grands over. I tried to see what Amber is doing, but haven't heard from her either.
It's really a yucky day today. Gray and gloomy and a fine mist just enough to make it feel really cold. Bumpa has slept almost all day so far. I'm waiting for him to wake up so I can see what he would like to eat for supper. It is already 6PM and I hate to cook too much later than this. I absolutely detest cleaning a mess up late in the evening.
Bumpa and our oldest son, Brian, have been out Turkey hunting most of this week. They didn't go today because Brian wasn't feeling good. But I believe they are all supposed to go tomorrow when the weather is nicer. Even Doug is planning on joining them I think!
Perhaps we will have a fresh Turkey for Easter!
I don't even know if any of the kids are coming to bring the grand kids over. I asked, but haven't heard back from anyone. We've been invited to Bumpa's aunt and my friends home for dinner, but I hate to accept in case the kids do bring the grands over. I tried to see what Amber is doing, but haven't heard from her either.
It's really a yucky day today. Gray and gloomy and a fine mist just enough to make it feel really cold. Bumpa has slept almost all day so far. I'm waiting for him to wake up so I can see what he would like to eat for supper. It is already 6PM and I hate to cook too much later than this. I absolutely detest cleaning a mess up late in the evening.
Bumpa and our oldest son, Brian, have been out Turkey hunting most of this week. They didn't go today because Brian wasn't feeling good. But I believe they are all supposed to go tomorrow when the weather is nicer. Even Doug is planning on joining them I think!
Perhaps we will have a fresh Turkey for Easter!
Wednesday, April 20, 2011
SPRING HAS SPRUNG!!!
Well, Spring has finally arrived here in Michigan. Yes, today and this weekend are supposed to be cold and rainy, it is still spring. We had three nice days in a row and our weather is unpredictable due to the Lake effect air currents and wind either from the north or west. Still, it is much better than snow!
As I sit here looking out the window in the computer room/office, I can see the trees whipping around as if they can't figure out which way the wind is blowing from. And the clouds in the sky resemble snow clouds much more than they resemble the spring thunderstorms we usually get. I'm not complaining about not having any thunderstorms as oldest dog, Prancer, is afraid of them....I just want the warm weather that goes along with the thunderstorms! I wonder if Spring will ever show up, or is Mother Nature just going to tease us with a nice day or two and revolve back to winter without spring, summer and fall between!
As I sit here looking out the window in the computer room/office, I can see the trees whipping around as if they can't figure out which way the wind is blowing from. And the clouds in the sky resemble snow clouds much more than they resemble the spring thunderstorms we usually get. I'm not complaining about not having any thunderstorms as oldest dog, Prancer, is afraid of them....I just want the warm weather that goes along with the thunderstorms! I wonder if Spring will ever show up, or is Mother Nature just going to tease us with a nice day or two and revolve back to winter without spring, summer and fall between!
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