Sunday, May 03, 2009

Sunday - the beginning............


October 2008 - Grandma and Hub at Grandma's 90 Birthday Party

of another work week. I am supposed to be ironing something to wear to work tomorrow. I seem to be putting it off as long as possible. Perhaps my thinking is that if I don't do it, tomorrow won't come! In all reality I know that won't happen, but in my mind I don't seem able to accept that concept!

It has been a rather ghoulish week for us. Hub's 91 1/2 year old grandma passed away on Monday April 27Th about 4PM. We arrived at about 4:20PM thinking we would be able to say our goodbyes. Grandma couldn't wait........weeks ago she told me that it was 'taking just too damn long to die!' She was more than ready and last summer the doctors informed us that she probably wouldn't see another winter. What did they know? Grandma fooled them all.........she probably stuck around just to embarrass them.....that's the kind of stubborn she was! But she was a dear old lady and I loved her. Coming into the family only 19 short years ago, she didn't have to accept me as a grandchild......yet she did. And she accepted all my kids as great-grandchildren and my grandchildren as great-great grandchildren. She was a classy lady and I learned a lot from her.....too many things to list here. Oh, they weren't things like knitting or any kind of needlecraft.......it was things about life that she had learned and just listening to her I learned. Go in peace Grandma, have that dance with Grandpa Joe in Heaven. I can picture the look upon your face when you met our Maker face to face!

The day of visitation at the funeral home wasn't too difficult for the older ones, but the younger ones......say early 20's and under had a hard time with it all. The only hard time us older ones had was when an old and dear family friend came to pay her respects and dropped dead of a cardiac arrest two feet from Grandma's casket. She wasn't pronounced dead at the funeral home. They took her by ambulance to the nearest hospital but I know she was dead before she even hit the floor. So the day after Grandma's funeral, we had to go back to the same funeral home and the same room to pay our respects to our old and dear family friend.....the only thing we can say about it is that she passed away fast and didn't suffer with friends near her and we were able to contact her family right away.

I have several drafts started and never finished because I ran out of time. I will get to them in the near future I hope, and now I must go and iron, and then turn in for some much needed sleep.

6 comments:

chesneygirl said...

Oh my goodness! That's terrible about the family friend.

So sorry for your loss.... I know you know she is in a much happier place!
HUGS!

Shawny Sun said...

I'm sorry for your loss. She sounds like a person I would have loved to have known. Hugs

martie said...

Thank you chesneygirl and Shawny Sun.

Shawny Sun said...

Happy Mother's Day! Hope you are treated to something extra special. Hugs

Pearl said...

Oh Martie I am so very sorry for your loss. Grandma sounds like she was quite the character. Don't you just love the elderly and how they just tell it like it is??
How sad you must feel about losing a dear friend too. Heaven must just be wonderful with all the loved ones we have there to see.

Hope you are taking good care of yourself. I miss talking to you.
Sending you hugs,

Lori said...

Goodness gracious! What a difficult time for you all.

Sending hugs your way, though belated....